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The Big Leap; Welcome to MoldByMola

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Hey guys!!! Welcome to my blog… MoldByMola.

I’m actually a shy person, which is one of the reasons I’m hiding behind a computer, but before I go on and on talking about me, let me tell you a bit about MoldByMola. This blog should have started since February but something and some people kept holding it back. I am sure by now you are wondering what and who, guys, it was just me, myself and my Fears.

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My web designer called me in February that the site was ready and I should start posting. Instead of posting, I started thinking “What if people don’t like it or are not interested in it? What if I don’t write well?”. Oh dear, you cannot imagine the amount of negative thoughts that ran through my mind!. I was in total captivity of negativity and self-doubt, I was so scared, and you know there is this type of fear that comes with fever and makes you shiver, that is what I felt.

Till now, those silly thoughts still cross my mind. However, I know now that I am stronger than them and the thoughts only make me want to do better. But really, who can blame me for being afraid?. There are so many wonderful blogs out there, they seem so perfect, the write-ups are so good, and this ‘small’ me that can’t even write well wants to open a blog. I was just too scared to leap to my next step.

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Overcoming my fears

I am a very sensitive person, and people’s feelings affect me a lot. This has hindered me from pursuing my dreams by creating the fear of “What will people think or say if I fail?” “Don’t humiliate yourself for nothing”, I use to tell myself because I hate failing…but who doesn’t???

Thank God I was able to overcome this fear by taking this leap of faith. My dear, anything you want to do “JUST DO IT!” stop overthinking things. Does it mean you will not fail? Well, “For every failure, there is an alternative course of action.” You will just have to find it and make the best use of it, at least you will be one step ahead than where you were.

I am so happy I’m one step ahead. Often, the only thing standing between you and what you want in life is the will to try and the faith to believe. So leap on people, leap as high as you can. Success begins with a willingness to step away from what is comfortable. I am assured that it is God‘s will that I prosper in all good things so this is me taking action, in spite of those small small tingly fears.
I know we have all been motivated in certain ways before, probably from a sermon, speech or book, or a meme on social media; Na that one motivate people in our generation pass, however, I don’t want you to only be motivated by this post, I want you to see it as a Call to Action. Get up and take that leap, trust in God and you will not be disappointed.

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Sorry guys I’ll have to stop here, for now, I hope you all enjoyed my first post. Don’t be a bad belle, you can kindly comment below about the post, your experiences with and thoughts on fears. I’d love for this platform to be as interactive as possible.
Thank you for reading. if you like this post, you’ll also like The Genesis.

 

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Welcome to Mold by Mola Adewoye! if you find yourself here, that means you share my interest in life, you love my style, adventures and you want to know more about me. I’m excited to have you on board. About Mola Adewoye I’m a freelance creator with a passion for self-development and beautiful pictures. I offer a view of beauty and exploration, through my love for travel, fashion, partying and with above passions for wanderlust and elegant, I make every moment memorable. I believe in purposeful living and that we all have a reason to be on earth. it is my mission for the blog to share with you every valuable moment of my pursuit through visual storytelling, personal developments lessons, simple party styles, travelling adventures and my easy going, stress-free lifestyle. Professional, I’m a Medical Radiographer, Sonographer and Photographer. You can tell I love good pictures both internally and externally [lol!]. I believe in Jesus, love to learn new skills, go to new places, meet new people and learn new cultures read more on moldbymola.com/meet-mola-adewoye/

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Kimi

Spot on.. fear is a killer and we must conquer it.

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Damola

ki, thank you, you’ve been so helpful

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Habbie

Lovely wrote up! I always have to deal with this issue of fear and the thought of ‘what if I fail?’ too. But I’m a believer and I have faith in God and that’s what always keep me going. As far as I have God anything is possible.
Hoping to read more from you! Nice write up once again! Love it!

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Damola

thank you biola, you’ve been an inspiring friend since day one, and i am so happy we overcame this fear together, something is cooking #RB. i love you

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Kimi

Spot on.

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Oby

Way to go girl👏👏👏

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Damola

thanks obyss

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Ayo

thanks alot for the post. looking forward to more

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Damola

thanks Ayo, stick with me and you will get more

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Akintayo Mojirade

Yasss💪🏻

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Damola

mojirade, thanks

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TOBE

Dammy, hmmm.. This is indeed a bigleap.. Your courage motivates me already, and am pretty sure it’s not going to end just in being motivated.
The biggest reward as Oprah Winfrey rightly said is not financial benefits, it’s living a life of substance. Today, Mola, is living a life of substance through service. This is a great legacy and it’s going to yield excellent fruits..
Am your no one fan, any time any day..
…TOBE

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Damola

tobechukwu, you inspire and push me daily. i am grateful for everything you have deposited in me, because they are all positive and productive. God bless you dear

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Abisola Green

Coco.. This is good stuff 😍😘😘😘

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Damola

thanks bisola my love

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kimi

Spot on

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Peace onuoha

I enjoyed reading😍😍😍😍

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Damola

thanks peaceful peace, lol. please stick around for more.

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Adewoye Nancy

Congrats, victory @ last. Ride on babe

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Damola

thank aunty nancy, God bless you, you are the best mum anyone can have.

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Tito Adewale

Spot on👌

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Damola

thanks Tito love

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Bola

Nice one. Keep it up. Love your outfit by the way. Hook a sister up

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Damola

thanks dear, no problem send me a personal message, God bless you

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Diaryofablackgolddigger

Lovely write-up. Great editing.

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Damola

thanks danny danny, can’t wait for our collaboration.

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Omowunmi

Nice one Damola👍. Way to go!… Have fun at it and God bless your endeavours 😇

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Damola

thanks Omowunmi, God bless you too

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Chima

Ride on dear… u r already a conqueror…

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Damola

thanks Chima, God bless you

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Som Amadi

Whoop whoop!! Congrats damola!

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Damola

wifey, thank you and God bless

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Sage Oliver

I love the write-up, it’s inspiring. Would always like to come back for more…Congrat and I know this blog will bloom..

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Damola

thank you, i am so happy you are inspired, please do stick around for more

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Boocunmie

This is awesome dearie…way to go

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Damola

thank you dear

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Sophia

Wonderful content girlll!!😍😍..the sky is your starting point!!

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Damola

thanks love, you are such a wonderful soul

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Faith Treasure

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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Damola

thanks

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Bianca

This came at the right time..what I just needed to read.

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Damola

i am happy about that love

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Omobolanle

Niceeeee… way to go girl, totally here for this 😍😍 and that outfit 🙌🏻🙌🏻
The world is your playground, do whatever and fear not, God got you 🙏🏻❤️

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Damola

thanks Bolanle, God bless you baby girl

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Subomi

Not bad.I always knew you will end up doing something like this.

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Damola

Subby dear, thank you

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Foluke

Damola, this is so inspiring, I love it. Nice one girl 👊🏽

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Damola

folly Coker, i love you so much, thanks dear

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Rukayat

I am so proud of u, and this is an amazing introduction 😍, keep this up, the sky is just the starting point.

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Damola

thanks dear, i will. God bless you love

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shyne

Welcome…you finally did wot I nvr expected…keep moving forward my fwend ….whre and wen anytime you need back up am always ready to render any support

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Damola

thanks dear for your support and love

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kabeerah olaoye

Nice write up…this got me and is actually going to help in my next move in life. have been having all of those negative thoughts, hopefully, am outta that already.

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Damola

thank you dear, i am so happy about that

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damilola

Go girl. Really inspiring post.had fun reading it. God bless you.

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Damola

thanks Dammy, i am happy you had fun

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Timi David

Damilola, am happy you conquered your fears. That’s one major thing that keeps people down. If you don’t try you won’t know how far you can go. Spread your wings and fly. You are a star!

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Damola

thank you for the word of encouragement and support uncle, God bless you

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Airmah

Congrats baby girl! This blog is absolutely beautiful, classy and organized , keep putting this much work and effort, and this blog would blow so big….looking forward to be molded by mola! Love you❤❤❤

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Damola

my love, thank you. i promise to do that, God bless you dear

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Maryam

Yipiy….. Nice one dear, I’m sure u would do great. I’m a fan already

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Damola

thanks sister

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Joshua

Hello dear, this is indeed a bold step, defying your fears and following your heart. Never thought you had this in you being a medical professional. This is really lovely. Keep it going dear I m proud of you.

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Damola

my able Oga, thanks for being a great role model sir, God bless you.

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Osaremen Ololade

Congratulations Dammy, way to go. A journey of a thousand years, they say starts with a single step. On a look out on this blog.

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Damola

thanks big sister, God bless you and yours. i love you so much.

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Tyla

Enchanting blogspot
What a Beautiful way to end the month

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Damola

runaway love, thanks

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AE

Hey girl!

Starting is where the work is, now all that matters is consistency. Nice one girl. Thumbs up.

AE
http://www.findingae.com

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Damola

thanks ma, God bless you. i can’t wait to see you again, love you

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Dare A

Uhmmm… who is that fine girl? Very thoughtful name for the blog. Well done.

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Damola

thanks Dare, God bless you.

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Mama

Awesome, many comments though. I hope you will be able to see mine.

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Damola

thanks Mama, lol why won’t i? love you sister

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MB

Good read! Nice start!

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Damola

thanks dear

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Ezinnem

“What will they say” This had hindered me alot,Till i realised no matter wat dey will still “Talk”.Nice piece baby,Very encouraging😘

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Damola

yes dear, we just have to do what makes us happy and fulfilled. i am happy you loved it

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Rantimi

This write-up came in just at the right time. We are here for you girl , you will do so great in this .

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Damola

thanks Ranti love, amen

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Latoya

Thanks dear hope to see more motivating words 👍😊

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Damola

thanks Latoya, i promise you will, just stick around

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Lateefat

Well done girl!! . I can’t wait to follow and read your amazing Posts on the blog. That outfit is gorgeous too . Big cheers!

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Damola

thanks love, i promise you won’t be disappointed, God bless you

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Toyosi

Nice1 dear 😍. The sky is your starting point. God gat you. 👍👍👍

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Damola

thanks Toyosi, God got us all

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olayinka

I like, congrats.

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Damola

thanks dear

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Itoro

Wow! I’m really short of words. When you first mentioned it I thought ” hmm Dammy and her tall dreams” but I’m really glad it’s a reality. Keep going girl….

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Damola

i can’t stop laughing at your comment ma, it is always good to dream big. thanks you ma

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Adeola

Wow!!!!!! This is soooo Amazing damola …..Greater heights bby

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Damola

thanks dear, amen

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Ozii

You are so right love…fear can be really crippling…we all need that courage🙏🙏

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Damola

thanks Ozy, i pray we all be courageous enough to leap

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Eka

Well done D.M!!!! More inspiration I pray you receive ijn.

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Damola

Amen, thank you very much

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bisola O

Am short of words , this is rily a beautiful write up, very captivating and motivating…. D sky is ur limit and keep u d good work my baby boo and am waiting for more write ups

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Damola

thanks dear, i will. you will get more soon

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DC

I normally don’t read long write up, but your first and second sentences kept me in d mood to read it all. I’m probably dealing with the same issue at the moment because I used to blog a few years back, but stopped it due to the effect my environment had on me. Friends have been asking wassup with your blog and I’m like “Busy with school for now” but down deep inside of me, I know it’s because of fear and what the people that surrounds me would say about wasting my time on blogging. But with this write up…I think…NO…I would take that step and go back to it…All the best dear.

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Damola

i am so happy this write up inspired you to go back to your passion. i can’t wait to see what you’ve got for us. please send your blog’s link to me. God bless you dear

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Oluwaseunfunmi

Interesting and inspiring 👌…Can’t wait for more post…. BTW nice outfit 😍😍

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Damola

thanks dear, i am happy you loved it

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gbemysola

You are going to do really good 👏👏👏

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Damola

Amen my love, thank you

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Enukaegu Elijah

This is beautiful! I was just brighten up by this post. It’s so deep. Keep on with the good works. I pray that as you’ve started this journey of life God will continue to inspire you the more. I hope you know God is the only inspiration and one of the best, stick to Him and he will never fail you. God bless you dear. Dammy_koko

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Damola

Amen, thanks for the prayers and support. God bless you too

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neefehmee

This is wonderful!

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Damola

thanks dear

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SirDeek

The first step is the hardest, now that you’ve overstep that all I’ll have to say is keep on following the ladder till you get to the top.

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Damola

thanks for the word of advice and encouragement, God bless you

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Obsy

Nice one dear. Keep ’em coming!

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Damola

thanks dear

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Ironlady

Nice write up..greater height,,love ur outfit

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Damola

Amen, thank you dear

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Jeffrey

Nice one sweets!

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Damola

thanks love

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Tolani

Damola….. This is really great and inspiring..I’m glad you took this big step cos fear is something we all have to deal with and get over for the next big thing to happen in our lives. I hope I get to take the big leap someday soon too… I’m so proud of you baby girl.

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Maryam Opeyemi

Welldone darling!!! I’m quite certain you have motivated one or two persons out there myself inclusive! May our fears and the spirit of procrastination never make our path to greatness hindered.. MUCH love hun ❤💪

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Segun Matanmi

Nice one Damola, I’m inspired. 👏🏾👏🏾

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Olufemi Akinlabi

Damola, you’ve won your first battle – fear. Having conquered fear, you’ll conquer the world.
Go girl, go ‘Mola. The LORD Bless you

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Drey

You don’t even need a model. Looking good BTW!!!

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Soyinka

Mola, this is indeed a big leap. I’m so happy you have chosen to share your thoughts and experiences with the world. I think there’s a lot people will learn from MOLD. This is your first piece but definitely not your best piece, ’cause your best is yet to come. I know how deep you can get and I’m looking forward to some life changing and destiny “MOLDing” articles.

CHEERS to the birth of MOLD.

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Tocn_Sofi

I’m super proud of you dear…lovely write up. I can totally relate with every single thing you wrote about fear. The sad thing about fear is that it makes one remain in his or her comfort zone. Now you will think you are comfortable (that’s the lie); you are actually stagnant, redundant and drowning in the fear.

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Mayen Inyang

Congratulations 😤 dearie. It’s awesome you’re able to overcome your fears for you have to believe in yourself and your dreams coz nobody will do if you don’t. More power to your elbow. Cheers 🍻

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Rad. Yomi Aruna

I have always known u as someone who is strong and never scared to actually grab what she wants…I was surprised you felt the opposite about yourself.
Nice article. Highly motivating.
Keep it up.

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Oluchee

I can’t stop looking at your style!😍

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Damola

Thank you oluchi

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Adewoye Temitope

The fears are really not real they are just what we made up. Thank you for this post.

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